Are Your Friends in Your Suitcase?

Last night I was a guest on Aaron Brazell’s TechnosailorTV. We spoke mainly about Twitter and other social networks over the 40-minute discussion. One of the topics I brought up is what I call the "friend suitcase". The idea is simple – a person develops friendships (real friends) over time on all of the different social networks. Whether it’s MySpace, Facebook, Twitter, Pownce, Plurk, Jaiku, Driftr, Yelp, Brightkite, Toluu, etc., we’ve all met people we consider friends.

Once a person moves into friend status with me, I do my best to get them into my suitcase. I guess it’s my form of data portability. My suitcase contains the information for my friends that is outside any social network. It typically includes email addresses, snail mail addresses, phone numbers and instant messaging accounts. Email is still the main form of contact with most people and so it’s important that I can contact my friends via email when needed. Sure Twitter or Facebook is good, but email is almost 100% and the likelyhood that’s going down is near zero.

With all of the talk about Twitter’s potential death over the past few days, the idea of the friend suitcase becomes even more important. So many times we’ve said, "what happens if x dies, how will we find our friends" — the answer is the friend suitcase. When I need to get a hold of a friend in an emergency situation, I sure don’t want to see a fail whale.

Once data portability becomes the norm and users can select to share the data above, then filling my suitcase will become much easier. I don’t see these exporting options becoming the norm for at least the next 12-18 months.

Do you have a suitcase? If so, what pieces of information do you store in it? If not, do you assume that your friends will find you on the next social network?